Marriage Fitness

Is your marriage in trouble? Marriage fitness can help you, just as it has helped me! Even with all the gentle angel lessons that I receive I still need help. We all could use a little helping hand once in a while. What caught my eye was when he asked Is your marriage in trouble? Then it said he was The Author of Marriage Fitness featured on national TV telling us how to turn our marriage around.

My first thought's were..

Who is he and what could he do for me? So I asked for angelic assistance and found him to be not just creditable, but effective for any relationship issues.

He has taught me an extremely effective method to bring passion and love back into my relationship just like the day we met. What I really like about Mort's system is he looks at ways to build a relationship rather then look at what is wrong and who's to blame.

If you would like to check on his interesting methods to help any relationship Go to Marriage Fitness through Mort Fertel and check out the many free training systems he has ready for you!

I know he has a different way of thinking and training, all effective. The story below gave me a different way of thinking about my relationship and I have invested in his material myself. Check out...

Do you know whether or not your marriage will make it? I can tell you with near certainty.

Hi. I’m Mort Fertel, author of Marriage Fitness.

If you had to pick ONE THING that best predicts whether or not your marriage will succeed, what would you pick?

You might say “conflict.” If you fight a lot, then that’s not a good sign, right? WRONG.

Would you believe that it’s the opposite?! That’s right; research shows that the number one predictor of divorce is the habitual AVOIDANCE of conflict. In other words, a couple who does NOT fight is at the greatest risk for divorce.

A couple came to me for private phone sessions and I asked them what was going on in their relationship.

“We never talk,” Kathy said.

“Why not,” I asked.

“Because we realized that that’s when we fight,” she responded.

Isn’t it ironic? We try to avoid conflict with our spouse for the benefit of our relationship. But there’s nothing MORE damaging to your marriage than NOT fighting.

Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is! Hate is close to love. To hate someone, you have to CARE about them.

Did you ever feel hate for your mailman? How about the clerk at the supermarket? You never hated them because you don’t care about them. That’s the opposite of love.

But the closer you are to someone the more likely it is that you step on each other’s toes. Hate is actually a sign of hope. It means you care. It means you’re close. Apathy, on the other hand, is cause for great concern.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not advising you to go pick a fight with your spouse. You can’t fight so that you’ll have a good marriage. I didn’t say fighting is healthy. I said people in healthy marriages fight. In other words, the fact that you fight is a sign that deep down you really love each other, that your relationship has potential. But if you want to be happily married, you have to learn to fight WELL.

Successful couples know how to discuss their differences. This is not something that comes naturally to anyone; it’s a learned skill. And once you learn it, all the energy that goes into your fights propels your relationship forward.

EVERY successful couple has areas of disagreement. No two people are perfectly compatible. “Irreconcilable differences” are like a bad knee or a chronic back—they’re part of every good marriage.

The key to succeeding in marriage is not finding the right person; it’s learning to fight well with the person you found. You’ll have “irreconcilable differences” with anyone you pick. The question is whether or not you can learn to discuss them.

If you’d like to learn how to discuss them as well as other marriage renewal tips, then subscribe to my FREE breakthrough report "7 Secrets to a Stronger Marriage" and get a FREE marriage assessment too. CLICK HERE, TO SUBSCRIBE It’s FREE.

Mort Fertel
Author of Marriage Fitness
Marriage Coach

Are you in a relationship? Have you been in may and wonder what's going wrong? Are you single wishing you had a relationship to be able to fight in?

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